Mar
Im sometimes feeling humiliated at work, and sometimes people cant hold their tongue and be racist. Like this person watched this movie last night and he thinks that guy in the movie calling the other race this and that (cant mention sorry) and obviously my skin colour is that. And first in the morning, after 5 secs after i sat down near him, he would start bossing around without any manners, without any reason just coz he felt like sh*t. So he let it out on me?? People i dont know what else to do, im seeing my second psychologist soon.
And when people know that you're happy, they would get annoyed to you coz of how i behave. Im not looking for any people's aceptance anymore as i have ben trying for it for nearly all my life at all cost. Do you guys think its time for me to leave this job? This is my first full time job and i have ben here for 4 years now, however, things just go deeper and the people are just getting worst. Each day im so stressed that actually my liver feels like its been pinching by needles… Any advice if i should move on into a different area? I work in a printing company.
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Hey there, yes you do know what to do. I’ve but one question for you to answer honestly to yourself. What’s more important to you, your mental health and stability or money? Because at this point it is the only reason you are staying. Personally, I’ve left jobs for less abuse than you are receiving and I now have 0 tolerance in any job I take, no matter what the outcome, money or no money. We strive to long in life to finally attain self awareness and a healthy mentality, why would anyone put this second. You are worth more than what you are receiving, are you not. It will always come back to what we think of ourselves and why we stay in any situation that is a threat to our life. If you look at what this kind of mental abuse does to anyone, you will always see that it takes the second form of physical illness. Don't put yourself through this anymore…….take care..&….good mental health
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dude its way past time to leave that job. Eventually your going to kill yourself if you don't. There are plenty of opportunity to prove yourself at other jobs. Stop working with these **** people and save yourself
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you asked for mental advice, this method works if you work it, it will help you
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If your boss is ignoring all this … he is scum !
If your boss is like them then he’s also scum………………
You never mentioned him or her …. so about the one you did mention
the Law states everyone has a right to do their duty without , prejudice
or malice… you are entitled to do your work and not be affected by
co-workers … you’re entitled to do your days work in peace.
Don't go out of your way to be friendly to anyone, no laws say you need to. Do your work and keep your friends and conversations to
the people you know outside of this sick environment that you call
work.
I am amazed by peoples GREED each day…for instance your therapist
should have picked up on this and being a professional should have
warned you ages ago to halt talking to these people.
bUT CHOSE instead to keep taking your money along with your misery.!!!!!
Just tell the person you spoke to above straight out, i don't concur with
a lot of the things you state…. don't talk to me. I’m here to do my
work and you do yours. And then just walk away from him or her.
If you’ve to repeat yourself then do.! I know it is hard the first time
but it works. Once they see you can’t be swayed eventually they
leave you alone. If you can find a superior place to work do , there is
no reason anyone should put up with all that .
But until you actually SPEAK UP …AND TELL PEOPLE TO BACK OF
iT WILL Just happen to you again.
I'm sorry, but it is the truth. Ring government agency's about work
and empower yourself with the law ! Tell your boss, what is being
said to you and act Strong and Determined ! State something like this
is the law, i have put up with so many years , Speak to such and such
about this and changing his/ her ways towards me or i have no option
but to report this….I’ve already spoken to other members of my
family and my doctor… So i am very serious.
And be serious when you say it ! Then sit back and watch things
change ! If there’s the slightest slip by anyone, don't let it go on
report it and ask something be done about it TODAY !