Jul
extreme sensitvity, chronic feeling of worthlessness, irritable mood most of he time, extreme bouts of anger, depressive thoughts almost all the time, almost zero motivation in life, anxiety…..but the most important thing EXTREME FEELINGS OF WORTHLESSNESS to an extent that i think everyone hates me, everyone must hates me, nobody likes me and refusal to believe that some guy likes me even thoug i get all the postive signs from that person.
How can i get well?
Thank you.
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Sounds like depression to me. Please go to your family doctor and if need be they can refer you in the right direction as to which physician to go to first. There are medications they can try and see if they work to make you superior. With all the help there is out there, there's no need to have to continue feeling like this. Just go to the physician and they wont judge you either.
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hmm, sounds like either depression, or bipolordisorder, but mostly sounds to me like depression.
you should speak to your doctor about how to get superior.
good luck sweetie.
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It sounds like you are in a stage of life called being a “teenager.” These are growing pains, and there’s no cure. You are in-between the carefree years of childhood, and the responsibility-laden years of adulthood. You are becoming your own person, less willing to just blindly following the example and words of your parent(s) but unsure and confused about what you really want, and what to do about it.
Note: The people who suggest you go on medication are concerned about you being suicidal, which can happen with teens. If you are suicidal then medication is completely necessary. If you are not suicidal, then you want to avoid being dependent on medication, which can sometimes make the problem worse by creating an addiction. You don't want to be numbed to life, but be courageous and face up to them and learn to embrace the pains and fears of life. If you’re numb, you aren't only numb to the pain, you’re also numb to the joys of life. It takes courage to live life. Cowards crawl under the covers and stay in bed and don't really live their lives. “Life is either a daring adventure or it is nothing…” Helen Keller
Every adult looks back at their teenage years with blended emotions. You are getting tuned to to your sexual awakening, but you aren't really ready to raise children. You don't want to do what your parents say, but are still dependent on them for financial support. “It is the ideal of times and it is the worst of times.”
What worked for some teens, including myself back then, is to get a part-time job and begin making money you can spend how you want on what you want. It keeps you busy, and your mind is focused on the job. Cultivate friendships and relationships with people who like what you like, and do things you like to do. Begin dating. (This opens up a can of worms, which is both good and bad. Good in that you have someone to focus your positive emotions on like love, happiness, joy, fun, and lust. Bad in that it can also contribute to your feelings of worthlessness and anger, etc. if they break up with you.)
Your body is also producing hormones it didn't produce as a child, and as a female, your menstrual cycle has started or will begin soon which adds to the emotional tensions as your body is now prepared for child-birth. This puts you in an emotional tug-of-war between wanting to have sex, but not trusting anyone not to hurt you.
My main coaching is to ride the rollercoaster that teenage life is. It will go up and down. The highs will be higher than any highs, and lows will be lower than any of your past lows. Enjoy the ride. It is called LIFE and it is about growing up.
What will help is being open to true friendship(s), someone you can share your feelings with, who is also going through the same roller coaster ride. A ideal friend for life. These friendships may last for life, and might only last a few years, but they’re your life-preservers for the present.