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Then why do we read so much about “im 14/15/16 and pregnant/want to be pregnant/ETC”
Then when someone makes a comment on their young age we get blasted for our concern to their lack of maturity and responsibility.
is this just a attention getting attitude to broadcast their age, when if they are Truly concerned about anything why do they’ve to tell us their age?
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it's the same in each section, not just this one. They are just trying to find someone that will agree with them so they feel like they are making the right choice. They want someone to praise them, as you stated, for the attention. They know deep down somewhere that this isn't the way it's supposed to happen, you're not supposed to be just entering high school and pregnant, you're supposed to be an adult with a stable job and a loving spouse. But I remember being a teenager I always felt like I was right and that no one understood. They feel like that too and want someone to tell them 'it's ok to be 14 and pregnant. it's ok to want this' so when someone tells them the truth they lash out and show their immaturity and the exact reason why they shouldn't be having kids.
ADD: just to clarify, I’m also all for NOT belittling young moms. What's done is done and those that WANT to be helped should, but, unfortunatley, more often than not they don't really want to be helped they just want what I talked about above.
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I concur with you that the girls shouldn't mention their age if they're not looking for attention or getting an answer on teen pregnancy.
but when/if the girls do mention their age, I don't concur when the automatic response is that they will be a poor mom and they are going to fail b/c of their age.
if the girls are already pregnant, the deed is done. lets give them the advice they seek.
the girls on here who are teenagers speaking about they want a baby. want to be pregnant, etc etc… are just looking to get a rise out of people and should be ignored.
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lol…I just posted an answer like that to another question. I have nothing against teens who are pregnant. Its not the smartest thing to go get pregnant, but it happened and thats that. I do however think when they post their age its kind of like an attention type thing. Wanting to know about cramping and bleeding and discharge during pergnancy is something women of all ages ask without stating their age so why is there a need to state you are 14/15/16 before it? It doesnt change the possible pregnancy symptoms.
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maybe they have nothing superior to do.Which i`m 16 and pregnant/engaged.but i have never done anything like that cause i know how really annoying it is.but maybe these girls really just need advice.But they really make the teenagers in that age group look really bad.but every teenager is different so u cant judge them all by some immature teenage girl that has nothing better to do.
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When I see questions like “im 15 and pregnant” the first thing I do is look at there profile and read through there questions and answers and most of the time find out that they are fake. Im serious any more you see questions like those look at there profile and 9 times out of 10 there fake questions.
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I think a lot of them tell there age because they’re scared and dont have much information, my friend who is now 21 had a baby at 14 cuz she had a mother who didnt explain things to her. She didnt even know what her period was when it started and it scared her to death. I just think most of these girls are scared and need info. regardless of the bad choices they have made
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so their questions will get answered like they're teenagers with teenager bodies and not 30 year old women who've already had kids.
sometimes its not for attention, its just for help
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99.9% of them are trolls and looking for someone to bite so that they can somehow feed their boring and underwhelming excuse for a life.
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It seems like this question is just a rant , I've seen your answers , even when they don't put there age you still give rude answers
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just like some other people said young girls may not feel safe telling there parents might not even have parents are brother and sister so give them a break ,,,,
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i completely agree with you. I don't think the questions are real anymore , they just want to see what people will say. its kind of like they enjoy negative attention.
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Because maybe they just want someone to talk to.. Because they can't talk to their parents about it.. I used this when I found out I was pregnant because I knew I can't tell my mommy.. I was only 17
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Because they’re still young stupid and immature. They think they’re the first ones on earth to feel things at that age.
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that's just their age showing
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i think they’re full of it or wanting us to some how save them
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Well just like when you always point out their age .It can be rather annoying .Even if they don't put their age someone always states you look young in your avatar picture .Stop thinking everyone is out to get you .
Well I have to put up with unprofessional nurses and very immature adults on a daily basis . I am not immature , Are you going to say im immature for disagreeing with your answer?
I really don't care what others think or state to me .It's called Karma it will come back to haunt them .I just go on living my life because I’ll always be judged .
It doesn't really matter .I do think it's annoying for the fake accounts or girls that can't spell and make themselves look totally ignorant .Not all teens are like that .Most people know that .They just like to put them all in a category as immature .But I run into immature adults all the time .
If someone wants to call me immature for my thought or all my choices on wanting to do everything I have the ability to for my child then go ahead . It really doesn't matter what you think because in the end your just a person behind a personal screen .
Obviously a lot of people feel you give them rude answers so maybe you should try a different approach or try to throw in some advice that might help.
These other girls make all teenagers look bad .Also I never put “im 16 and pregnant ,what to do?” I ask questions about pregnancy , like normal things people might ask .I barley throw my age in thier and still get rude answers .On something that has nothing to do with my age .That just shows how the people are on here.
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I just logged on to Y!A about 5 minutes ago and i keep seeing questions like this. This is the pregnancy section not the drama section. Stop trying to begin **** and stop hating on young moms.
Now back to the real pregnancy questions. 