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I don't know because I’ve not been in that position. It would greatly depend on how much help and support my family would be prone to receive. If I couldn’t expect a certain level of support, I wouldn't be able to do it. We have kids at home who we’re raising and I could not sacrifice their needs for the sake of one special needs child. If it were the choice between continuing to be a good mom to the kids I have at home versus having to sacrifice what they need and the time I can spend with them, I would have to have an abortion. It would probably be the most difficult decision I've ever faced but that’s the criteria I would have to use.
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Peace,
Jenn
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I think the temptation would be there but no I don't think I could.
I mean that baby is a blessing either way. And just because the baby has down syndrome is no reason to think that child isn't perfect.
As humans we all face temptation (and as humans we like to take the easy way out) but I feel I’ll just be lucky to get pregnant so I mean that baby is my baby and I couldn't just abort it
I believe abortion is wrong so although I'd be tempted I don't think i could have an abortion
And there’s always a chance the test is wrong as well and I'm not going to have the test done.
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No. I selected not to have the tests run in the first place, because my husband and I wanted a baby…it didn't have to be a perfect child, we would have loved it regardless. Also…a friend of mine had the tests run, but chose not to know the answers. She found out when her daughter was 5 yrs old and perfectly healthy that the tests had shown her to be 99% likely to have Downs Syndrome. Just something to consider…they're tests, they're not God!
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No, i'd love my baby no matter what.
The blood tests aren't always accurate, they’ve a higher rate of being wrong than being right, the ultrasound can be wrong too, only the amniocentesis is 99.9% correct, but even then i wouldn't get that test done because of what it involves, so since i refused all those tests i would never have to consider aborting or not aborting if my baby was high risk.
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no
I’ve a special needs child with Autism and she is the light of my life
and also, sometimes those tests are wrong
I told the physician I didnt want the test done b/c I didnt want to know cause if there's somthing wrong like downs syndrome, I didnt want to know until he's born.
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NO! Why would I? My husbands brother has Down Syndrome and dlet me tell you something… he is just like everyone one of us. He’s a human being with feelings, he can do things just like “normal” people can, and he's so sweet, loving, caring, and I wouldn't ask for a superior brother in law. He's great and I love him. Just because people are born with Down Syndrome or any other disability doesn't mean they should be aborted or treated any different. This type of stuff makes me angry, people who think about aborting kids for this type of reason. People should love and accept their children no matter what they look like, no matter what disability they are born with, etc. Just because people are parents doesn't mean they should be!!
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I don't know.
On one hand it is cruel to kill an unborn child,
but in some ways it is even crueler to condemn
them to a lifetime of solitude and ridicule, plus any
medical problems that come with the disorder.
But I don't really know much about Down Syndrome.
Personally I wouldn't do it.
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nope i sure as hell would not!! what’s wrong with having a child that has downs?? they have the ability to do the same thing any other child can and they can show the same love just like anyone else there just the same as us they have everybody part we do if my baby had that i would love him just the same
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if that's what the test stated about your baby, i wouldn't believe it. they said that mine was as well and he was born very healthy. its just and ultrasound and even tho they have made them better they still make mistakes.
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All babies are a gift from God. My view? My baby is MY baby. –I was a high risk due to my advanced age so they state (35) and that was my response. My original Dr wasn't pleased with my answer so I switched Dr's. btw…Most of the tests are not 100 percent accurate. The only one that is is an amnio.
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No! I would bring my child into this world loving him or her and caring for her no matter what difficulties might come our way. Just because someone is going to have a child with a disablity does not give them a right to murder an unborn child.
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no, by the time you’re far along enough for the test to be accurate, your baby is well established as a baby. that would be pure murder.
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no but most of those tests are wrong so dont believe them! they told me from level 2 ultrasound and triple test my daughter had down syndrome and i was 22 weeks and they suggested abortion.
anyways she was born fine and shes extremely beautiful and smart.
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completely not.
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No definitely not. The test that guesses the percentages aren't accurate anywy
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No way. not at any cost because it's my baby……. I am just 15, but i still love my future babies………..
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No, the test aren't always accurate. There could still be a chance that your baby will be fine.
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i wouldnt even get the test. you bond with your child so much during pregnancy that it wouldnt even matter if it had downs.
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Jessica stated it all…
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NO. if people do they’re terrible people with no hearts for those in need
NO OFFENSE!
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HEC No!!!
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I passed on these tests, If God wants me to have a baby with down's then that's what I'll do.
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Nope, not at all. I’ll love my child with DS as i would my child if born without DS.
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no
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no
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No way its still my child!
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no…and anyone who would probably shouldn't be a parent.