Apr
I feel really uncomfortable talking to my mom about boys, school, my period, and bras. Is this wrong? I only want serious answers. Whenever she tries to speak to me, I ignore her. My sister is 18 and just started dating last year. I go to a private school, so no one really dates. I hate talking to my mom about my period. It feels so awkward!!!! Please help me! Also, I know how my mother was once my age and all, but she's really embarassing.
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just say you’re fine right now but you’re glad that 'if' you didn't need a chat you know she is there.
This way you’re putting a stop to the conversation you are feeling uncomfortable about but in a nice friendly manor and leaving your mum feel still important as you know she’s there anytime,
Talk to your sister about it. maybe she has some tips. she must have 4 more years experience on this.
Us mums find it hard too though, my daughters are 10 and 9 and are starting sex education this term . i always mention bits as they’re getting the start of boobs and some hair etc but as soon as they cringe i just smile and change the subject. i want them to always have someone they have the ability to speak to but i find it humiliating too.
i never had anyone to talk to. i found out things as i went along. you and my kids are lucky to have someone to turn to, keep that in mind, you might need it one day.
til then i hope you manage to just keep avoiding the chats in a positive way that makes you both happy.
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No you shouldn't feel uncomfortable about it. She's your mom, and she's there for you to speak about anything to. She could really help you understand things superior and give you advice if you just give her the opportunity to. Obviously she cares about your life if you wants to talk to you about stuff, so don't blow her off, you might be surprised at how easy it can be to talk to her or how much she could help. Just give her a chance!
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You shouldn't be, your mother went through all of this too! She’s probably the best person you can talk to about puberty and such.. She understands, so if you still feel weird speaking to her about it, tell her your kind of uncomftorable talking about this, and maybe she has the ability to help you!
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don't worry about it. i am 13 and have the same problem. i dont like speaking about it, but i know that it is the ideal thing. and it will feal good to get it out there, and off your chest
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I concur that the ideal thing is to talk to your Mother. But if you just can't do it, there's a lot of good information online. Just be sure you're looking at a legit site like WebMd. Here's a good article - http://women.webmd.com/tc/normal-menstru…
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I feel the same exact way.Even though im twelve. Hopefully We both will get over it. It is very uncomfortable at first, but soon, my friend said ” I will be a “pro” soon enough” lol wateva that means. But still. You’re just like any other girl !
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It will get easier. When I was 14, every time I had to bring up my period to my mom, I got embarrassed. Now it's like “Mom, I’ve cramps! Leave me alone!” Lol. I'm over it, and you will be too.
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I don't speak to my mother about my period, thats my business not hers. I do speak to her about sex and boys…
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heey, yeah im 14 to and the same way .
it's totally normal